Nollywood star actress, Funke Akindele-Bello popularly generally known as Jenifa has revealed secrets and techniques of how she maintains a contented house along with her husband, Abdulrasheed Bello, JJC Skillz.
The favored actress revealed that she is often fast to apologize to her husband at any time when they’ve a disagreement.
Although she agreed that she is the one which will get offended extra and quicker, as soon as she has spoken her thoughts, she’s prepared to maneuver on to different points.
“When now we have disagreements, I apologize first. You realize me; it’s mouth that I’ve. I’ll say the whole lot and simply let it go and my anger span could be very quick however Abdul’s personal is longer, so, he takes his time earlier than he will get offended. Abdul doesn’t get offended simply, he takes issues straightforward.
“And Abdul knows how to communicate better; so, if I am having issues with someone I am working with, I usually go and report the person to him. I ask him, ‘what do we do now because you know that I don’t know how to talk o.’ Then he tells me to calm down and goes to talk to the person,” the actress stated throughout an interview session with Your View TVC programme.
She added that her husband is a really caring and understanding man who helps her in making their output higher, noting that she is extra of a artistic individual whereas her husband is a technical individual.
Jenifa disclosed her husband is “very understanding and he is a very good man,” including that “For Abdul and me; I am the major producer, Abdul does not produce, he does not even like it. He is a director, he is so technical. I am very creative, he is very technical and he is very good.”
She went forward to explain a sensible working situation involving her and her husband, explaining that “As a co-director with Abdul, if I don’t want one thing, I inform him. Like I preserve nagging, the place is your shot checklist, the place is your shot checklist? We’ve got to get this shot checklist. I say it like two days earlier than; I inform him allow us to discuss in regards to the shot checklist however he says, ‘Yo, Yo, I am coming.’ Along with his accent, however he has the whole lot in his head. So, once we get to the set, I inform him what I need us to do however he’ll reply saying, ‘Yo, Yo see this place is small. We have to manage it’.
“I tell him, ‘Skillz, ma so be (don’t say so); let us do it from here.’ But he will say ‘Babe, please calm down, calm down.’ Sometimes I tell him, ‘Fi ooyinbo le, leave English’.”
“You should not command people to do things; you should communicate in a subtle way. You should not be defensive, you should not nag. So, I tell my husband things I do not like and he does so the same way,” Akindele-Bello said.